Today is a BIG day for the Austins. One year ago, we were officially granted custody of Pendo, and she legally became an Austin!! Here’s an excerpt from what I posted on this here blog one year ago.
“Today we feel like we’ve had more than our fair share of miracles. Not only did God answer every single one of our prayer requests about today, He went well above and beyond! We didn’t really know what to expect when heading into today’s court hearing. This hearing was about a week and a half earlier than we expected, and it was on a WEDNESDAY, which is very strange (for adoption cases). We were one of only two adoption cases that they heard today. . . . . by 11am it was all over and done with. We were back in our car headed home–the tearful, thankful, legal parents of Pendo Austin! Yes, the judge granted us permission to adopt Pendo, and in the eyes of the Kenyan law, we are now her parents!!!!
Well, I know you are just dying to know what happened behind those closed doors. First of all, Pendo slept through over half of the hearing (thank goodness!!). The hearing took place in the judge’s chambers, and the five of us sat on a bench in the back of her office. Those Kenyans who have spent time with us and interviewed us to be sure we will be good parents to Pendo all presented their reports to the judge. We had a difficult time hearing most of what was said, but all of the reports seemed to have been very favorable. Towards the end, the judge asked both Graig and I questions about why we want to adopt and how Pendo will be accepted by our families, etc. When it was my turn to talk, I just knew I was going to tear up. Sure enough, good old emotional Sara, shed some tears while answering the judge’s questions. At least I didn’t call the judge a “sir”. Yep, that’s what Graig did. We both thought the judge was a man. Nope. We found out later that she was a SHE. Oops! Guess my tears and Graig’s addressing her as ‘sir’ didn’t matter. We were still granted permission to adopt Pendo. The funny thing is that we didn’t know that happened until we were out of the judge’s chambers and back in the hallway. Both Susan (from the adoption agency) and Esther (Pendo’s guardian) congratulated us. We asked, “For what?” They then explained that the judge had given us a court order to adopt Pendo and that we would not need any further court dates. It was all over! I really cried then. It still seems surreal in many ways. . . . What a crazy, emotional, very surprising day! We are just so thankful for how God has paved the way for us so far, and we are very excited that Pendo is officially an Austin! Thank you so much for praying with us and supporting us in this amazing journey. The real journey is just beginning now that Pendo is with us forever.”
We are just beyond grateful that this judge whose name I don’t even remember changed our family forever. Pendo is exactly what we didn’t know we needed. God knew, and He orchestrated a beautiful, scary, amazing plan to bring her into our family. We are eternally grateful. Our lives were forever altered one year ago today.
Sweet, precious Pendo, we celebrate this day with you, because of you. December 2nd will always be a beautiful day to us because God did it. He humbled us and amazed us and delighted us with making our dream come true, becoming your parents. We’d dreamed and prayed and hoped for this moment for five years. We took huge leaps of faith, giant steps into the unknown, not knowing the end result would ever be as beautiful as you. Adding you to our family has changed me, changed all of us. My personal faith has grown leaps and bounds as I’ve experienced this faith journey of adding you to our family. I know God much better because of you and how He brought you to us and the amazing year we were able to live in your home country of Kenya. We adore you, precious girl, even though you are a two-year-old to the nth degree, even though you test me more times a day than I can even try to count, even though you fight with your sisters, even though you want the whole world to be about you right now (come to think of it, I still want the whole world to be about me). When you say, “Mama, I’m sharing!!” and when you pray at dinner and when you tell me you want to snuggle me and when you snuggle with my hair and when you sing songs about Jesus with me and when you ask for music or for me to read you a book, my heart just swells with the joy of having you in our family. I speak for all of us when I say we really couldn’t love you more. There’s just no way that’s possible.
So . . . today we celebrate the journey, the strengthened faith, the blessing of you, the story of you. We adore you and are amazed that we get to be your family forever.
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