Calling all mommies, grandmas, aunts, and anyone who has been around toddlers and preschoolers!!! We need some help!
There’s a lot of this going on in our house.
Do you recognize the “I’ve got a turd in my panties” swagger?
If she weren’t so cute, I think I’d lose my mind.
Don’t worry, this little precious is doing the same thing, but she doesn’t even bother to do the cowboy strut. She just goes about her business looking a little guilty.
So here’s the situation. I’m T-I-R-E-D of washing poop out of panties and picking turds up off the floor. Last week I took the girls to an adoptive family playgroup. OH! I was so excited to go and meet other local families like ours!! (It WAS really great, by the way). But, wouldn’t you just know it, after being with this new group of people for about five minutes, BOTH girls decided to take a dump in their panties. I wasn’t too surprised. I thought that might happen, but it’s still SOOOOOOOOOOO frustrating!!! As I was cleaning the second one up, her little turd rolled out of her panties and onto the bathroom floor. This happens fairly often at home where I can quickly clean up and disinfect with no problem. I had nothing with me to do that here at this undisclosed church bathroom. I only had two, yes two, wipes with me anyway. I needed those and more (had to get a little creative) to just clean up the dirty buns, so I just did the best I could at cleaning up this wayward poop and tired, in vain, to laugh about it. I’m really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really tired of my girls NEVER pooping in the potty!!
I’ve tried rewarding with chocolate, the very exciting “I pooped in the potty” dance, the phone call to dad right after it happens to share the good news, the “Mommy is reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally tired of cleaning poop out of your panties. It’s gross. Today, you can clean up the mess” approach. So far, NOTHING is working!! After talking to some other moms in my book club last night, I went out to Wal-Mart this morning and bought some VERY special shiny, fun stickers to make a sticker chart for peeing success, and I also bought an extra-special toy that they will be allowed to play with after they poop in the potty. We’ll see how this goes. I’m hoping for the best, but not expecting much improvement.
Here’s where you come in . . . Do you have ANY, I mean ANY, advice or ideas of what we can do to encourage pooping in the potty? We’re doing fairly well with #1 (though they did regress over the holiday travel and we’re trying to get back to where we were before we left), but the big #2 has always been an issue with both of them. They’ve had success maybe 3 times each, and I’m tired of the cowboy walk.
So, please help!!! Let me know what you’ve done or not done to help the kiddos you know.
I do realize that each child is different, and Rose’s prematurity could be playing a little role in this as well as Pendo’s somewhat young age for potty training, but I really think they can both do it. What do you think?
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